DEAR ABBY: MY HUSBAND BLAMES ME FOR HAVING MY PERIOD

New York Post

 

UK cops show up at Trump-supporting cancer patient’s home to force her to apologize for ‘offensive’ Facebook post

By Anthony Blair

Published Sep. 18, 2025, 4:48 p.m. ET

 

An American cancer patient living in the UK accused British cops of questioning her over an allegedly “threatening” message she’d posted on Facebook as part of the UK’s crackdown on online speech.

 

Shocking video shows Deborah Anderson, a President Trump supporter and mom of two, being confronted by a police officer in her home in Slough, England, over something she wrote on Facebook.

 

In the clip, which was filmed in June but shared by the pressure group the Free Speech Union (FSU) Wednesday, the officer tells Anderson that her “threatening” Facebook post was reported to police.

 

“You can come in, but you’d better have a damn good reason for being here,” Anderson tells the cop before adding, “I’m a member of the Free Speech Union and I’m an American citizen … I’ll have Elon Musk on you so quickly, your feet won’t touch [the floor].”

 

The Online Safety Act went into effect earlier this year in the UK — a law ostensibly meant to target harmful content online, including posts that are violent or pornographic. But critics say it’s enabled police to stifle free speech and even arrest everyday people for simply retweeting.

 

In Anderson’s case, the officer from the Thames Valley Police didn’t tell her the contents of her allegedly offensive post — just that it had “upset someone.”

 

“You’re here because somebody got upset? Is it against the law? Am I being arrested?” Anderson asked, to which the officer replied that she was not under arrest but asked her to apologize.

 

“I’m not apologizing to anybody, I can tell you that,” Anderson said, to which the officer warned her that she would have to be taken in for an interview.

 

“Are there no houses that have been [burglarized] recently? No rapes, no murders … why aren’t you investigating those?” she asked the officer.

 

“I’m a cancer patient. You can see that because I’m bald … I’m a woman living on my own, who has never broken a law in her life,” she said.

 

Thames Valley Police did not respond immediately to requests for comment.

 

Earlier, a spokesperson for the force said in a statement, “In June, we received a report from a person who felt threatened by comments directed at them online. Following engagement with both parties, no arrests were made, and no further action was taken.

 

“While people are entitled to express their views, it is the police’s duty to respond to allegations of threatening language and references to violence.”

 

Thames Valley Police’s jurisdiction includes Windsor Castle, where Trump and first lady Melania Trump have spent the past two days as guests of King Charles.

 

Trump and Vice President JD Vance have said freedom of expression is under attack in Britain.

 

“Trump and Vance were absolutely right. There should be no doubt that people in Britain are being cautioned, arrested and imprisoned simply for exercising their freedom of speech,” the head of the London-based think tank the Bow Group, chairman Ben Harris-Quinney, told The Post.

 

“Famous comedian Graham Linehan, who moved to the US to escape free speech restriction, was later arrested by armed police on returning to the UK over tweets opposing trans ideology. Many felt the case was dropped so quickly due to [UK Prime Minister Keir] Starmer’s fear of reprisals from the US with the state visit upcoming.

 

“The biggest voice championing free speech in the UK is currently Donald Trump’s,” Harris-Quinney added.

 

“The free speech comments from the White House have caused great concern in the UK,” Maxwell Marlow, director of public affairs at the London-based Adam Smith Institute, told The Post.

 

“Whilst officials and the government do not believe that there is a free speech crisis in the UK — despite the overwhelming evidence to the contrary — recent legislation such as the dreadful Online Safety Act have put ministers on the back foot.

 

“It is important for the American government, if they wish to reinforce free speech for the British people, to maintain the pressure on the British government to repeal the impositions on our liberties,” he added.

 

The FSU called the June incident “chilling” in its post about the video.

 

“What was Deborah’s supposed crime? The policeman didn’t tell her. Was it her passionate support of President Trump and the MAGA movement on her Facebook and X pages?” the post read, before saying that police had dropped Anderson’s case after the FSU took it up.

 

“The FSU took on her case and, as a result, the police have now dropped their investigation. But they still haven’t told Deborah which of her posts got her into trouble, claiming they’ve accidentally deleted the record of the complaint,” the post continued.

 

“Thames Valley Police are responsible for guarding President Trump this week. What would he make of the fact that those same officers are visiting the homes of his supporters — including US citizens — and threatening them with arrest,” the post concluded.

THE POLITICS OF CO-ED WASHROOMS

This article is interesting in that the students were at first weirded out by having to use co-ed bathrooms, but later came to accept that everyone does it, even going so far as to have poop partners and shower dates.

PASSENGERS TOLD TO PEE IN BOTTLES DURING MIDAIR EMERGENCY

New York Post

 

Flight from Hell: Passengers told to pee in bottles during travel nightmare

By News.com.au

Published Aug. 29, 2025, 10:29 a.m. ET

 

Originally Published by: News.com.au

 

Virgin is grappling with the fallout of a disaster on board a flight from Bali to Brisbane, after all toilets malfunctioned mid-air and passengers were forced to improvise in humiliating conditions.

 

The ordeal unfolded on Thursday afternoon when Virgin flight VA50 departed Denpasar.

 

The rear lavatory was already out of service, but the six-hour Boeing 737 MAX 8 service was not delayed or cancelled due to limited engineering support in Bali.

 

Midway through the journey, the situation worsened when the remaining two toilets failed completely.

 

“One elderly woman was unable to hold on and suffered the humiliation of wetting herself in public,” a passenger told The Australian.

 

“Midway through the flight, every toilet failed. For the remaining three hours, the cabin crew informed us we would need to relieve ourselves in bottles or ‘on top of whatever was already in the toilet’.”

 

According to the passenger, a foul smell filled the air as urine seeped onto the cabin floor.

 

Virgin Australia confirmed the incident, apologizing to those affected.

 

“A Virgin Australia flight from Denpasar to Brisbane on Thursday evening experienced an issue during the flight which affected the serviceability of the lavatories,” the airline said in a statement.

 

“We sincerely apologize to our guests and thank our crew for managing a challenging situation on board.”

 

The airline said customers would be credited for the flight and contacted directly with updates.

 

The Transport Workers Union (TWU) said it had reached out to Virgin following the “distressing event, which constitutes a severe hazard both for crew and passengers”.

 

“Across the board, aviation workers are dealing with increasing risks to their health and safety at work, with an industry-wide trend towards profits over performance,” TWU national assistant secretary Emily McMillan said.

 

“We need to see decisions made in the interest of public and workers, not just prioritize getting planes out to maximise profits at the expense of the community.”

SKATILOGICAL CELEBRITY CONFESSIONS

Mila Kunis Reveals Why She and Ashton Kutcher Keep Bathrooms Doors Open at Home

 

The love shared in Mila Kunis and husband Ashton Kutcher's tight-knit family—which includes 8-year-old daughter Wyatt and 6-year-old son Dimitri—knows no boundaries.

 

So much so, that the Black Swan actress revealed they keep an open-door policy at home.

 

"That includes the bathroom," she told E! News in September 2022. "It's just one of those where, for better or for worse, as a family and the kids have all kind of embodied bodily function as a very standard norm."

 

Mila said she arrived at the decision after her family kept knocking on the door and asking to come in, which prompted her to oblige: "I was like, ‘Oh, forget it. Just keep the door open.'"

 

Pre-kids, she might not have imagined she'd flush that particular boundary away.

 

She added, "I'd never thought that I would be the person that was able to go to the bathroom with the door open."

 

Jana Kramer Explains Why "Asparagus Pee" Might've Lead To A Breakup With Chris Evans

 

Back before the world knew Chris Evans as Captain America and People's Sexiest Man Alive of 2022, Jana Kramer knew him as the "heartthrob, cutie" she went on a few dates with.

 

It happened more than a decade ago, the singer revealed on her Whine Down with Jana Kramer podcast in November, and though she can't remember "how many dates it was," she does recall their last encounter.

 

Jana, then about 26 years old, said Chris invited her over to his house while he had friends in town from Boston.

 

"The last interaction that I remember is him going into the bathroom after I just went with asparagus pee," Jana remembered, referencing the veggie's tendency to give urine a very distinct scent. "We didn't hook up that night. He stayed up late with his friends and then [in] the morning I did the asparagus walk of shame out of his house."

 

She added, "I never heard from him again."

 

Jelly Roll Admits He Once Pooped His Pants Onstage

 

Jelly Roll could’ve used some saving from himself.

 

The “Save Me” singer was asked about his most embarrassing moment during an April 2025 appearance on The Jennifer Hudson Show—and he definitely didn’t hold anything back.

 

“I pooped myself one time,” he admitted. “I did, I’m sorry.”

 

But to be fair, Jelly Roll (real name Jason Bradley DeFord) didn’t expect to deal such a lethal blow.

 

“I was confident it was all air,” he insisted. “I'm so sorry. I watched this crowd go from loving me to just being completely out.”

Courtesy E! Entertainment News.

WOMAN BREAKS UP WITH BOYFRIEND BECAUSE HE DOESN'T WIPE HIS BUTT

New York Post

 

I dumped my disgusting boyfriend because he refused to wipe his butt — it made me physically sick to be near him

By Brooke Steinberg

Published Aug. 13, 2025, 1:25 p.m. ET

 

One exasperated woman is wiped out after a crappy confrontation with her butthole of a boyfriend.

 

A Reddit user took to the website’s “Am I The A–hole?” forum to ask if she was in the wrong for telling her boyfriend she would break up with him “if he doesn’t start wiping his butt.”

 

The original post on June 13 had in fact been removed by a moderator — but not before the (unfortunately) unforgettable anecdote was shared in the Best of Redditor Updates page.

 

The 26-year-old woman stated that she had been steady with her boyfriend, then 27, for approximately nine months before they decided to shack up together.

 

After nearly a year together, things had been good between the pair, she said, except for one “really gross, ridiculous problem.”

 

Within the first few months of sharing a space, the woman noticed that her boyfriend never had toilet paper in his bathroom, noting that they have a two-bathroom setup and they use separate ones most of the time.

 

“I figured maybe he used wipes or something else,” she wrote. “But then I started noticing smells. Like, awful smells. Sometimes his laundry would stink in a very specific way. I thought maybe it was just bad hygiene in general, so I brought it up.”

 

The poster said that her boyfriend got defensive and told her to “drop it.”

 

“Eventually, after too many suspiciously stained boxers and just a level of funk no grown man should be walking around with, I asked him point-blank: “Do you wipe after you poop?”

 

According to her, the boyfriend shrugged and said, “Nah, wiping is kinda gay. Why would I touch my own ass?”

 

“I thought he was joking. I laughed. He didn’t,” she wrote.

 

As it turned out, the boyfriend “legitimately” believed that wiping “makes you gay” and that “real men just let it fall out and go about their day.”

 

She told him that way of thinking was stupid and incredibly unhygienic — and made her “feel physically sick to be near him sometimes.”

 

Her boyfriend then reportedly accused her of being judgmental and said that she should “accept him for who he is.”

 

“I told him I draw the line at poop. I said if he didn’t start wiping and taking basic hygiene seriously, I’d have to reconsider the relationship.”

 

After she informed him of the dealbreaker, the boyfriend allegedly started sulking and said that she was being shallow, telling her that she was “prioritizing societal expectations over true love.”

 

“He even texted me a link to a ‘men’s rights’ subreddit post about ‘how wiping is emasculating.'”

 

“Now I’m wondering, AITA for threatening to break up with my boyfriend over something as ‘small’ as wiping?”

 

Unsurprisingly, Reddit users flocked to her defense.

 

“Not only does he sound homophobic and like those ‘macho’ men, but he’s a grown a– man with no hygiene and no proper excuse,” one person wrote. “Think about what would happen if you two were to have kids or something. You’d have a whole family not wiping their a–es, it’s disgusting.”

 

The original poster responded in agreement, saying that she “can’t build a future with someone who equates cleanliness with weakness.”

 

She posted an update on June 24 to share that she ultimately ended the relationship — “and it was somehow even messier than I expected, no pun intended.”

 

She explained to him that it was more than just wiping — it was about respect for her and the space they shared together, making her live in “constant secondhand filth.”

 

The Reddit user also told her ex that she was disappointed after repeatedly asking him to change something “extremely reasonable,” but he refused to do “the most basic thing to stay clean.”

 

“He stared at me in silence for a few seconds, then laughed. Like, this weird fake laugh. Then he got super defensive and said, ‘Wow, so I guess you never actually cared about me. This is what ends us? Over wiping?'”

 

“He folded his arms and said, ‘I’m not changing who I am just to make you comfortable.’ I said, ‘I’m not asking you to change your personality. I’m asking you to not smell like s–t,'” she wrote. “That’s when it got dramatic.”

 

The boyfriend allegedly stood up and threw his keys on the couch before calling her “judgmental and shallow,” then packing up a duffel bag with random things around the house.

 

“Before he left, he looked at me and said, ‘You’ll regret this. You’ll never find another guy like me.'”

 

“And I just said, ‘That’s kind of the point.'”

 

The woman said he has since texted her a few passive-aggressive messages, such as “hope your next guy wipes and lies to you about it” and “Real men don’t fold for toilet paper.”

 

“Since he left, I’ve deep-cleaned the apartment, burned a candle, and done five loads of laundry. I cannot tell you how amazing it feels to sit on a couch and not wonder if it’s been in contact with poop,” she wrote, thanking the Reddit community for giving her the push she needed to end the relationship. 

HOW TO CLOTH DIAPER SIMPLY, FOR DIRT CHEAP

This video dispels the notion cloth diapering must be expensive. 

DUNK AND SWISH

Though there are lots of modern innovations that mostly prevent the need for this, apparently there are cloth diapering parents out there who still choose to use the dunk and swish method for cleaning cloth diapers. Here are two videos instructing one on how to do this: one with poop and one without actual poo.